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PJ's Story
My husband and I started trying seriously
to conceive when he and I were both 35 - in 2001. With
no inkling that we would have any issues, we tried for
a year before we considered consulting a doctor. Then
I had a few tests run which were all fine and we kept
trying. I started using a fertility monitor. Still,
we had no luck. After two years, we consulted a reproductive
endocrinologist (RE). We had some more tests run on
both my husband and me and all the results were fine.
Over the next six months I had three failed IUI's
with injectibles; each with a very poor response;
just one follicle. If my FSH was tested during
this timeframe, it was always low. After three failed
IUI's and a hysteroscopy to remove a small polyp,
my RE ran a clomid challenge test which
is an attempt to identify diminished ovarian reserve
(DOR). I flunked this test with flying colors with a
day 10 FSH of 45 (it should be less than 10). My RE
gave us the bad news; there was virtually no
chance of conceiving with my own eggs; we needed
to consider either egg
donation or adoption.
After having a chance to digest this horrible news,
we decided that as a first step we needed to get a second
opinion. So I went to another RE in another city, ran
another clomid challenge test and flunked again. Same
news from this doctor; 1% chance of conception
even with IVF
and we needed to consider egg donation or adoption.
While in this city, I found out that many RE's
were supporting the concept of acupuncture for patients
with infertility. So while in this city, I did several
acupuncture sessions and I read Randine Lewis'
book - The Infertility Cure - and started
on several of the supplements that she recommends.
So then we decided we needed to bring in the best of
the best; I went to see a third RE who is seen
as an expert in the field (this clinic also has a very
large egg donation program) and my day 3 FSH was 19.9
which was over this clinic's cutoff for IVF which
is 15. About three weeks later we had a phone conference
with this doctor; he delivered the same bad news
that we knew was coming; 1% chance of conception
and we needed to consider egg donation or adoption.
So we set the wheels in motion and set up a meeting
with the coordinator for the egg donation program.
Little did we know, however, that in between the time
that my FSH was measured and the time that we spoke
to the third doctor, I had conceived naturally. My husband
and I were in shock when my period was late and the
home pregnancy test was positive. I went to see my first
RE (because he was near my home) and he confirmed the
pregnancy but he told us that the risk of miscarriage
was very high. I also spoke to the other two RE's and
they were no more optimistic than the first. So for
three months we were on pins and needles waiting to
hear the worst, but all was well. The whole pregnancy
went very smoothly and I delivered a healthy baby boy
in 2005. As I write this, we are trying to conceive
again; hoping for another miracle baby.
See PJ's website - www.highfshinfo.com
- and don't forget to read the continuation
of her story!
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