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Maya's Story
Posted
Nov 5, 2005. Last updated June 18, 2006.
I have read a number of amazing stories
on this site but have so far, yet to come across one
from an intended grandmother who has gone through the
agonising process of infertility with a precious daughter.
I am sharing my story in the hope that it will help
other intended grans to cope with this extremely difficult
process.
My precious daughter Maya married her
handsome prince several years ago. She had a fairytale
wedding and we were all ecstatic for her, as a family.
We all dreamed of the little family they woud have together.
Sadly, my precious childs' dreams were
shattered, on hearing from her fertility specialist,
whom she had visited, after unsuccessfuly trying to
fall pregnant for a year, that her husband had no
sperm. Once again, she had to pick herself up, and
they decided to try firstly AI,
and if not successful IVF.
Shortly after this they discovered she had endometriosis
and they operated successfuly. One month later she was
pregnant with her first AI, we were joyful beyond belief
and I went out and purchased lots of things for this
dearly beloved {already} first grandchild. Sadly, she
miscarried at 11 weeks. We were all shattered and it
seemed to take us months of dealing with the grief to
start having hope again.
They tried AI twice more, but were unsuccessful.
It is now a year later and two weeks ago she had her
1st IVF cycle. They transferred two healthy eggs and
she will know tomorrow whether she is pregnant or not.
This has been incredibly draining for her and I pray
with all my heart and soul that tomorrow will be a positive
day for my precious child.
Update from Nov. 6, 2005:
I posted my story a few days ago. I spoke
about my daughter Maya's painful struggle to conceive
and how we were waiting with baited breath for the results
of her blood test on the 5th November.
Our prayers have been answered, she is
expecting (possibly twins) in July 2006. This was the
happiest day of their lives and mine. I thank God with
all my heart and soul, and pray for her to have a trouble
free, and blessed pregnancy. God willing, my precious
daughter will soon experience the glorious joy of motherhood!
Update from
Dec. 9, 2005:
Maya's almost three months and is having
a myraid of unpleasant pregnancy symptoms which I'm
sure will pass soon. Her doctor is very happy with the
progress and she and her hubby have proudly displayed
the scans on the fridge door. It does my heart good
to see them both so happy. Did I tell you that she's
having twins? We're so excited!
Update from
March 27, 2006:
Its a few months since I communicated,
but I thought I should let you know that Maya is now
going into her seventh month of pregnancy and is extremely
well, and looking forward to the birth of her twins
{a girl and a boy}. She really is in top form, has loads
of energy and is completely over the initial nausea.
I've had loads of fun helping her with
the nursery, and cant wait to see my precious grandchildren.
Update from
June 3, 2006:
I'd like to let you know that my precious
child is almost into her 36th week of pregnancy. As
she's carrying twins {a boy and a girl} she's been advised
that they will probably arrive around the 37th week.
We're so incredibly proud of her, she is strong and
fit, although a little breathless from time to time
{quite normal under the circumstances!} We can't wait
to say hello to the little ones who are now around 2kgs,
have strong but very different little heartbeats and
are obviously very happy in their current domain!
Update from
June 18, 2006:
Our prayers have been answered, Maya gave
birth to my two precious grandchildren. They are perfect
and so beautiful, we feel so blessed and grateful for
the miracle that has taken place in our family.
See also:
A Guide for Parents of Children
Going Through Infertility - What to say, what not to
say & how to really help your child
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